Dogs will be dogs, but who will you be?

Now, in times of fear and uncertainty, it’s crucial that we develop and practice stewardship over ourselves, so that we don’t unnecessarily descend into disorder and chaos and then suffer, and cause suffering, as a result.

The world might be going crazy. But you don’t have to.

The question that life asks each of us at some point is who will you choose to be?

There is always a choice.

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Know Thyself. And Love Thyself.

“Know thyself” is one of the oldest aphorisms of the ancients.

Self-knowledge is light.

But personal transformation doesn’t come through light alone.

It also requires love.

It is the combination of light and love, when applied to our stewardships, that brings about personal transformation.

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The Transformational Power of Resentment

Resentment has the power to transform you.

It doesn’t have to remain and fester within, though, leading to a life of bitterness, misery and perhaps even vengeance.

If used wisely, resentment can be burned away, like fuel, in the drive to move forward.

One way or the other, resentment can be transformational.

How will you use yours?

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Stewardship: A Vision for the New Decade and Beyond.

For the individual, a stewardship mindset leads to a life full of purpose, meaning and fulfilment.

For the organisation, a culture in which stewardship is the guiding principle is one in which leaders are found at every level.

Stewardship is what makes it possible for anyone, regardless of rank, title or status, to be a leader.

Stewardship is simply the application of love through self-governance.

It is foundational to sustainable success.

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Human Connection Transcends Tribal Division

As tribal divisions seem to grow in both scope and depth, it’s important to remember that our humanity and connection as human beings runs deeper than any tribal fault-line.

A recent trip to a football match, and what I learned after the match, reminded me of this simple truth.

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Kindness is Heroic.

When it comes to a person’s legacy, status and accolades are overrated, while presence and care are underrated. Presence and care can change lives through transforming hearts and minds. Changed lives change the world – one-by-one. That shouldn’t be dismissed as a platitude – it’s a simple fact.

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Your Story: Your Values and Your Why.

I’ve recently taken some time to reflect on my stories. I’ve many to tell, but I’ve been particularly focused on my personal transformation story. My life has never been the same since. And it forms the bedrock of my mentoring business. It communicates why I set up the business, why I love the work I do and why being a mentor is my calling in life.

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A Leader's Love.

Love is a better way to lead. It’s forgiveness, not blame. It’s care, not neglect. (More specifically, it’s care for the whole, not just the personal fiefdom.) It’s selflessness, not selfishness. It’s humility, not hubris. It’s truth, not deceit. It’s long-term sustainability, not instant gratification. It’s all that is good.

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Self-Care: Fulfilling Our First Stewardship.

Whether we want to develop our relationships with others through love and service, make our best contributions to the world, or take control of the world’s most powerful companies, it’s clear that we need our well-being to meet the task. Selflessness in making a meaningful contribution doesn’t mean self-neglect.

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Winning through Faith.

Faith is applicable to all aspects of life.

Through faith we can do more, achieve more and be more.

Fear and doubt will prevent us from reaching our full potential and realising our dreams.

When those around us are telling us not to take the shot, our faith can guide us to keep going, to take the shot and win.

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Thank You for Laughing at Me.

Each of us is divinely unique. Our uniqueness gives us the ability and sacred responsibility to serve others and, in so doing, make significant contributions to the greater good. When we lose ourselves in serving others, we find ourselves. Some of life’s greatest and most lasting blessings and successes are found in that paradox.

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Winning: Together is Better.

The whole experience was a reminder to me that regardless of our individual achievements and accolades, we never truly achieve success alone. We are always, to some extent, drinking from wells that others have dug, while also receiving ongoing support from those around us. To crow “I’m the man/woman!” belies the lived reality of what it takes to succeed. 

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